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Balance: Weighing the importance of a real estate career and Life’s gifts

Do you have good balance of work and personal time?  I thought I did until it hit me hard over these past few days that I need to take more time and enjoy life, family and friends. 

For approximately five months a few of my relatives have been planning a 60^th birthday party surprise for my cousin to be held in Colorado Springs, Colorado.  The plan was to bring family in from different areas of the country to surprise him as he would take a break from his work in California to come home to Colorado to be with his family.  At first it was not an issue to go but these past few months’ business has been very good to me so I backed out to keep on top of my buyers and sellers.  It was early last week after several conversations I agreed that I could fly out on Thursday but would need to return to be in Nashville by Saturday afternoon.  I decided to take my laptop with me and work as I traveled.

Before leaving for the airport Thursday morning CNN reported that Farrah Fawcett passed away.  Wow!  I will be 50 years old this coming month and I was just like every male of my generation that had her posters on my wall and in my locker.  She was a 70’s Icon!  We all knew that she was giving her all as she battled cancer but just to hear that she passed away was no longer just a passing thought.  I thought, oh well, she will be in my prayers tonight.

I had to fly to Atlanta to connect to a flight to Colorado Springs.  The flight was quick, up and down to Atlanta and I had a few hours to wait before boarding so I pulled out my laptop and cell phone and started my activities.  Michael Jackson’s name caught my ear so I glanced up and CNN was reporting that he had a heart issue and believed to be in a coma.  I continued to work and thought maybe it is a publicity stunt or something.  As I worked in the busy terminal I could hear different comments about him as people would be telling their jokes – just natural as people have conversations since this seemed to be the lead story.

Breaking News…CNN can now confirm and report that Michael Jackson is dead.  I immediately looked up to watch the television and then looked around my gate as well as the nearby gates.  Silence!  People of all ages did not speak but stared at their area’s monitor as the report continued.  Damn, Farrah Fawcett and now Michael Jackson!  I could only think of sadness as this great talent that we were blessed to see in our lifetime seemed to have struggled with happiness despite all the fame and glory around the world.  I thought to myself that he appeared to always seek the childhood that evaded him.  Seeking his childhood as an adult caused him great pain and public scrutiny.  Another Icon of my generation passes away.

I could not work anymore as my thoughts transitioned from the passing of these two talents to thinking about life.  Am I doing the best to balance my career responsibilities and enjoying the gift of life?  I thought I was; I play in tennis leagues, have several good friends, love my home and family and make it a point to get out in the community and giveback when I can.  Yet here I was dreading taking time away from my work to spend just a few days with relatives, many of which I have not seen in years.  Needless to say I had a reality check.  Balance!  No more laptop for a few days.  My visit was one to remember.  We had a blast and I cherish the time we shared. 

The real estate industry can be (and is) a 24/7 business.  It is easy for all of us to fall in the trap of working so hard that we let life pass us by.  I am now more conscious of the efforts that I need to make to continue to be successful in business and enjoy life!  Wishing each of you all the best!

June 27, 2009 - Posted by kbargers | dedication, real estate | balance, colorado springs, family, kenneth bargers, life, Nashville, real estate